While I was in the previously mentioned Street of Shops scouring the aisles for my beloved Fire King -- Primrose or Peach Lustre patterns, please --I came across a book, another one.  A very special one, for the excellent hostess, circa 1967.Check out the swingin' house; I think they're going to visit the Bradys.  When I can work myself up to it I promise I'll scan some pictures for you, because they're almost all uniformly eye-poppingly bad...What's that?  Just one?  Oh...OK.And for dessert, we'll be delighted to serve you the specimen from a biopsy.  In all seriousness, I suspect the people vacationing on the Riviera wouldn't touch these things with someone else's silver spoon, melted raspberry jelly or no.  I also love with all my snarky little heart that they give you a recipe for making buttered rye toast, because who on Earth would have thought of combining bread and butter and heat?  Not I, sir.  Not I.  And before you think that was just symptomatic of the time and the domestic arts industry looked at American housewives as relative simpletons who needed direction in all things food-preparatory, let me direct you to its modern-day equivalent.  Feast your eyes upon the recipe for Rachael Ray's "Late Night Bacon".  I'll just post it--the whole thing--right here.Ingredients

• 8 slices bacon

OK, but seriously.  I am so lucky, and glad, and happy, that I was not a party-throwing hipster back in 1967, because I would have rained shame down on my family's name.  I like to give parties--I can throw down a pretty decent one by today's standards, with or without the microwaved pork products--but I.  Would.  Have.  Been.  Shunned.  Ostracized!  Committed.  By my family or the community, for my failure to conform to party standards.  Here's one of my favorite passages from the Hostess Cookbook so far:***Hostess on Her OwnNo one will deny that the greatest asset any hostess can have is an obliging husband.  But lacking this advantage, it's still possible for a girl on her own to earn her stripes as a party-giver.And why is he a great asset?  Because he's thoughtful regarding his guests and helpful in the kitchen?  Or because he's present and that means the hostess isn't a singleton?  It's presented to the reader without a syllable of explanation, so it's up to the reader to decide...First, choose a menu that requires the absolute minimum of last-minute time in the kitchen--for either cooking or serving.This is good advice whether you've got a husband who...obliges...or not.Second, avoid a roast or bird that needs to be carved.  This is really man's domain, and you'll look more graceful serving if no surgery is involved.Because nobody wants to see an armed, stressed, and potentially stabby unmarried hostess.Third, if you're having cocktails, set up a bar in the living room with glasses, ingredients, shakers and ice on a table, chest, or bookcase. This is America, and it's not like people have books on their bookcases.Now delegate.  Ask whichever of your men guests you know best--your beau, your brother-in-law, the husband of your best friend--to act as bartender.  Most men enjoy this role, but may hesitate to assume it without a specific go-ahead from you.  If you have to leave the room, ask the woman guest you know best to take over such hostessly [yes, that's what they wrote] duties such as door-answering, introductions and peanut-passing.'tis a sad tale, the plight of the unpassed peanut.  Which would surely happen if--Heaven forfend--a woman had to mix a martini.*** {end scene} ***They also gently inform the hostess that if she's serving cocktails, she should have at least one non-alcoholic beverage so "...if your guest doesn't want one of your stronger potions, he or she can elect fruit punch or ginger ale without calling attention to the choice."  I'm not sure why discretion gets called into play here, particularly because the person whose image the hostess is protecting is that of the sober one.  The implication is that the soft-drink-drinker is the weirdo that you don't want to let harsh on everyone else's buzz.  This reminds me of all those great movies where everyone drank gin all day and smoked their faces off; extra points if Grandpa made the gin himself in the back corner of the barn.  (OK, even if you never click the links I embed, click this one, because this page is a LOT of fun.)People, I read these things so you don't have to.  You're welcome.This book has it all.  Mexican medleys!  Ham buffets!  Pancake parties!  Brunch Parisienne!  Jiffy Jam sticks!  Mock cheesecake!  Bacon curls!  It's not just frozen medical waste over peaches, it's so much more.